Worthwhile essay at Canticanova.
This point really rang a bell: often people who say the organ is too loud really mean they don't like the selection of music.
So I'm willing to admit that, that it is a worthwhile essay.
HOWEVER -- (you knew there was a however, dincha?) I am actually open to complaints, (surprisingly to anyone who knows me,) even if I doubt the legitimacy of them, but when the person is known to me and we've been through it before, and I have already determined that he has an agenda or she has a blind spot, (a "deaf spot"?), it's kind of hard to smile and say, Oh, okay, I'll see about that...