“If I have spoken wrongly, bear witness to the wrong; but if I have spoken rightly, why do you...?"

I wish someone, anyone, would show me in the actual words of the hand book  for Catholic school teachers in the San Fran Archdiocese, where the "hate," "judging," words  contrary to "love, acceptance, respect and dignity, " things in opposition to what "Jesus said," "harm," failure to "welcome," are.